If 2020 has taught us anything, it’s that knowing something about the future can really help guide us in the right direction. Because of the uncertainty caused by the pandemic, many of us are struggling to settle on the big decisions of life. If you’re tired of the limbo, the stars can help.
It’s About Connection
Whether you’re looking for a real friendship or a romantic partner, how you connect with people is key. Flashy Leo and heartfelt Cancer may have a good mother/son relationship, but the love horoscope options for them are limited. Intense Scorpio will struggle to flirt, but a strong sex drive can quickly lead to expression beyond the verbal.
If you’re interested in someone but don’t know much about them, start with their birthday and review their sun sign. As things continue, try to find out their moon and rising sign. A Scorpio with rising Taurus is a very different person than a Taurus with a rising sign of Scorpio. While people can change how they express themselves, and some signs are very good at that, we all have our tendencies that are innate. Once you understand these tendencies, behaviors can make a lot more sense.
Sex Vs. Romance
Between consenting adults, there are still a wide variety of connections that can be baffling in the extreme. Scorpio is often thought of as a sexually intense sign, but those born in this sign can also be aloof and off-putting as a way to avoid getting hurt.
Leos are known for being sexually adventurous and imaginative, but only if you’re really excited about being an audience member. Great sex, maybe not so much romance. Virgo wants lots of closeness and connection with one partner, but any experimentation will take a lot of trust, so be ready to build love before you can try new stuff.
Healthy Boundaries
Maintaining healthy boundaries in friendships can be easier if you know something about the sign of a new friend. For example, Cancer may want to be a caring soul who knows all your troubles, but oversharing can create a really lopsided friendship.
The first step is to know what’s going on in your sign. If Jupiter is working hard on you, you’ll have lots of great ideas and start thinking out loud. Nothing wrong with this, but stable Taurus may consider every one of your ideas to be part of your plans and make judgments about you that are poorly formed or just inaccurate.
Take care when expressing yourself in front of new friends. If something is a brain dump or a wild guess, say so. Bounce ideas around like a ping pong rally where nobody is keeping score only when you’re sure that your conversation partner gets it.
Intensity
If you need to vent, your Gemini friend may have you laughing at the end of the exchange. Your Libra friend will help you calm down and split up your feelings into manageable, correctable problems. Your Cancer friend may start a charitable fund on your behalf. It’s unfortunate, but different signs need different data from you, and they may not be able to handle your intensity.
Also, if a new friend suddenly needs to be your best friend and long term companion, they may be a beloved Taurus. There are many folks of this sign who don’t make friends easily or who tend to stick with the same people. If you are a Leo or an Aries who always needs to be socialized and connected with lots of folks, your loyal Taurus may feel left out and hurt. Make space for someone on one time, or bring a Scorpio along for the Taurus to excavate.
It’s really important to understand that some signs are lousy at chatting. Intense signs like Pisces, Scorpio, and Cancer will get bored with chit chat and may pick up a book in the middle of a party. Give them someone with a passionate nature to talk to and watch them bloom.
We’re all capable of changing our outlook, and an introvert can learn to get out into the world. However, fighting your basic nature all the time is exhausting. Seek out romantic connections and friends that get you and allow you to express yourself easily. Study your sun sign, your rising sign, and consider what the planets are doing to you and your loved ones right now for the best results.
Bonus Tip:
Learning about astrology can be a fascinating and enlightening experience. Astrology is the study of the movements and relative positions of celestial bodies interpreted as having an influence on human affairs and the natural world. By understanding the principles of astrology, you can gain a deeper understanding of yourself, as well as others around you. Astrology can also be used as a tool for self-discovery, helping you to identify your strengths, weaknesses, and potential areas for growth. Additionally, astrology can be used in psychic readings, which can help you to gain insight into your future and make important decisions. Overall, learning about astrology can be a valuable tool for personal growth and self-awareness, and can also be a fun and interesting hobby to explore.“