Available. I’m totally looking to settle down. I’m a bottom and sober so any tops who don’t party can feel free to apply. I can’t be with someone who likes to drink a lot or do drugs. Been there done that. I’ve got my shit together and I think I’m a pretty good catch. I’d prefer someone around my age 35-50 or so.B like: Bullied…Have you been bullied at school, or have you been the popular one?
Oh god–I was tortured in high school. I was very short and effeminate. I didn’t hit puberty until I was 15. I looked like a girl so I was constantly made fun of and even physically bullied. I wanted to be invisible. I came into my own in college and after I moved to New York in 1991.C like: Cry…when did you cry the last time and why?
I cry often. I just watched the Amy Winehouse documentary which is amazing and absolutely tragic. I cried during that. It’s so devastating to see how talented she was but also so wounded and sick.D like: Dick. Did you…have sex with someone in order to get something, if not…would you?
Hmmmm. I think we all often have ulterior motives when we have sex. We want to get something out of it–pleasure, validation, affection. Have I ever slept with someone to get something specific, like money or a job? Yes. When I was young I had a sugar daddy who helped me with bills and paid my rent. I don’t regret it but I wouldn’t do it now. Now I’m the sugar daddy. HA!E like: Embarrassing…your most embarrassing moment?
I’m addicted to watching Netflix and eating junk food in bed before I go to sleep. It’s a horrible habit and that’s why I have to work out constantly.H like: History…If you could go back in time and change history, what would you change? Why?
I can’t think of one. Believe it or not I’m quite introverted. I seem very public online but I don’t feel like there is anything I want people to know that I haven’t said in some capacity.J like: Job…the worst and the best job you ever had?
Wow. You’re getting personal. My last kiss was very nice. It was with someone I’ve had a twitter crush on for a while. He’s a really good kisser. That’s all I’m going to say.L like: Lie…What was the last lie you told?
Joe Manganiello. Duh. Have you seen him?O like: One-Nighter…Are you a one-nighter?
And once I dumped and entire bucket of caterpillars on her head when we were kids. She still hasn’t forgiven me for that.Q like: Queen…Your advice on how to be a queen?
Just be yourself. Own all of your uniqueness–your remember that your „flaws“ make you original. And NEVER listen to the haters. Especially in the internet. Just do your thing.R like: Regret…Do you regret anything?
No. Why bother? I learn form mistakes and move on.S like: Spontaneous…The most spontaneous or strangest thing you have ever done?
Latex. I’m deathly allergic. And no that is not a condom reference. 😉U like: Ugly…Ugly and live forever, or attractive and die in a year?
Ewwwww–who wants to live forever? I don’t want either of those options.V like: Vision…Do you have a vision for your life?
Yes and no. I try to live in the present as much as possible. That being said, I do want to get married and get a dog and continue developing my career in HIV activism and advocacy.W like: What…was your kinkiest wet dream?
I like the photos from my shoots with Justin Monroe. You can find them online. They are the closest thing to porn I’ve ever done. He’s fun to work with and he’s slutty and sex positive. The shoots are fun and the guys on set are always hot. He encourages you to be free and sexual. I did one shoot with him and another model Ben Patrick Johnson. The concepts was a play on masculine and feminine and we were wearing some women’s lingerie and some butch stuff. Ben’s big dick was flopping around all over the place and rubbing up against me half of the time. HA! that was fun. Plus they are both great guys.Y like: You…If there was one thing you would want us to know about you, what would it be?
I’m a genuinely nice guy. I have my own struggles just like everyone else. I’m far from perfect but I make an effort to be proud of myself and live a shame-free life.Z like: Zombie…How would you survive the zombie apocalypse?
Sean Black. @seanblackphoto
Marjolein Annegarn from Amsterdam